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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 08:33

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

My life is so biszare .

Was to survive, this bastard.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

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I had hoped to write a book about this .

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

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I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

And i lived it daily.

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We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Would this be the day?

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

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They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

She wouldn,t have been !

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

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Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

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And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

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I did it because my mum asked me too!

Who then, do I blame.?

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

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I was seconnd youngest,

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Is there porn on TikTok?

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

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Why did i forgive my father ?

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And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

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As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

It was going to be , some day.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

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Ive learnt so much.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

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Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

My family never makes their pension either.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I was very sick at this time too.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

He resisted the act ,that day.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

When she asked me how she looked .

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I waited trembling.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

One cannot live in the past .

She was in good health!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

But ive been too sick for many years..

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

So whats the point in blame.

I was 9 years of age.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I think the readers, may guess!

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

All the time i was locked up.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I will be 64.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

She married twice! .

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Comes on , in middle age.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

Im still living with it.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

He knew the spot.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I have no regrets .

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

(And it was in our own minds.)

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

What did i know ?

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

She loved him until the end.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Put me off passion for life!!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

But, we were locked up after school.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

I don,t even have a pension.

So, i spoilt her more .

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

And who doesn’t know suffering?

We all went to grammer schools

I write beautiful poetry .

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I never cut or harmed myself..

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I was scared of men, in general

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

We were not on the streets..

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

She found it foreign!.

This is soul school!.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Especially a lifetime of it.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I couldn’t, believe it.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

But it wasn’t much.

I said to her

As i do to all so called friends.?

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

I could never make a relationship work though!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .